An inspiring social initiative has emerged from Rajasthan , where the Kalal community has taken a strong and historic decision to curb the growing trend of ostentation and extravagance. A meeting of the community held in the Oberi region led to a consensus on several key changes aimed at simplifying traditions and reducing financial burdens.
There will be no more cake cutting at weddings and birthdays.
The society has clearly decided that the practice of cutting cakes at events like weddings and birthdays will be completely abolished. It is considered a Western influence and simplicity in keeping with Indian traditions will be preferred.
The engagement ceremony will be very simple.
Major changes have also been made regarding the engagement ceremony:
Now only coconut (Shriphal) and silver coin will be given.
The engagement ceremony will be performed on the same day as the Haldi ceremony, eliminating the need for a separate ceremony and significantly reducing expenses.
Control over wedding food and jewellery
The number of dishes prepared at weddings will be limited .
A ceiling limit on offerings of gold and silver jewellery was considered.
The aim is to eliminate the competition for show and provide relief to middle-class families.
Call for a ban on beauty parlor expenses
The society has also considered the huge expenditure on beauty parlors during weddings as unnecessary and has appealed to reduce it.
Participation of women will be mandatory
Emphasis has been laid on ensuring the participation of women in the decisions of the society, so that their contribution in social reforms can increase.
A disciplinary committee will be formed to ensure compliance with the rules.
Special committees will be formed at the village level
A disciplinary committee will also be formed to ensure compliance with the rules.
An example for the entire society
This initiative is setting an example not only within the Kalal community but also for other communities.
The financial burden will be reduced
A simple lifestyle will be promoted
Social evils will be curbed
This initiative in Rajasthan demonstrates that if society is determined, it is possible to address modern problems while preserving traditions. This initiative could mark the beginning of a major social change in the future.
